Dildos and sex toys add variety to sex with a partner or solo. Now, you can find almost anything imaginable out there, but for many, the dildo is a standard you can’t do without. You can find one that mimics the real thing, or you can add one to your collection that is a little more creative. The hardest part can be making up your mind about which one to try next.
Types of Dildos
Dildos come in many shapes, sizes, and colors. A dildo is phallic-shaped with a defined tip for stimulation. They can be used to support many types of sexual activities, including vaginal penetration and clitoral stimulation. You can find them made of silicone, rubber, plastic, metal, and break-resistant glass.
Dildos come in nine general types:
- Hard
- Soft
- Representational
- Non-representational
- Vibrating
- Double-ended
- Strap-on
- Pack-and-Play
- Suction cup
How to Use Strap-on Dildos
Dildos and strap-on dildos offer endless possibilities for play and variety. For your best experience, make sure it is clean before you begin. Warm it up according to the manufacturer’s directions so that it feels best against your skin. Also, lube helps to decrease friction and adds extra sensation. Always consult the manufacturer’s instructions as far as how to use the product and how to clean it.
A dildo is an excellent addition to foreplay or as the main attraction. You can begin by rubbing the dildo on your skin, starting with the inner thigh. If you plan to do penetration, you can start with the tip and work up to it slowly. The most important component of the experience is communication with your partner. If you are experimenting solo, try different techniques and touches until you find what works for you.
Strap-on toys can be used to penetrate a partner or to provide internal stimulation when worn with a special harness. Many couples like to use them as a part of fantasy play. Once you find what works with simple dildos, you can move up to double-ended, double-penetration, or firmer dildos. You might also try combining them with other toys, too.
Some dildos mimic natural skin in texture, and others have ridges. You can choose them in flesh tones or vibrant colors. They also have varying degrees of curve from straight to curved for g-spot stimulation. Dildos are measured in length and girth. The girth of the dildo is how wide it is across.
It is important to remember to wash your dildo after use. Clean it and store it according to the manufacturer’s directions. That way, it is ready for your next use. Most manufacturers recommend storing it in a clean, dry place, away from sunlight or temperature extremes.
Selecting the Right One
With so many choices of strapon sex toys, deciding where to begin can be challenging. Silicone dildos are a good place to start for beginners. They have a realistic feel and closely mimic the real deal. You find them in a variety of hardnesses and shapes.
The best place to start might be something that mimics the familiar, but then, you can try branching out into different sizes and textures. If you have allergies and are concerned about harmful chemicals, you can choose one that is Latex-free and phthalate-free. Most silicone dildos are submersible unless they have a vibrator.
When choosing a dildo, you should never use one that causes pain. If you experience the pain of any type, you should stop immediately and try a smaller size. Make sure to apply plenty of lubricant to avoid rubbing or chafing. You can also try different materials to find something that does not irritate your skin.
If this is your first time, you might want to try one with a tapered end. A dildo with a girth of 1.5 inches across might be best for a beginner. Also, those with harder ridges can be too harsh, depending on your sensitivity.
Choosing and using a dildo is a matter of personal preference. The best way to start is to try a few out and see which ones you like best. Strap-on dildos can lead to a more fulfilling sex life by adding interest and variety.
